I’ve built an impactful biz that fits inside my dream life, instead of hustling hard just trying to create that life
and mothering still remains my #1 priority. But it didn’t come easy…
My journey to get here included recovering my people pleasing tendencies, healing from good girl conditioning, learning to soothe my nervous system, and finally deepening my self worth
And now I’m here to hold the flashlight and your virtual hand while you walk your journey.
Don’t worry, I’ve got my bag packed with snacks for us too!
Hey new friend,
It’s Nicole here!
HUMan, MOM, COACH, REBEL
Basically I’m a professional BS detector WITH my Ph.d in liminality
The messy middle. The in-between. The contraction before expansion. The dawn before light. It’s all my jam.
I get sooo turned on witnessing a woman tend to the seeds planted on her heart, not society’s to-do list.
It’s the below ground work. The inside out work. The personal exploration. The integration. The unraveling and remembering that lights me up like a fucking Christmas tree!
This passion fully ignited from my own initiation into
motherhood
Most of my life, I was victim to good girl conditioning and patriarchal programming…
…that led me to believe that productivity was a measure of my self worth and that being pretty, perfect, and pleasing (plus a bit of hard work) was the secret to success.
You see, I had it “all”...
A gorgeous husband who loves and protects me. The dogs. The house. The retirement savings plan. The university degree. The safe and secure job….
And then early one morning during my window of ovulation (with consent of course), my husband graciously impregnated me before we parted ways for work.
And the rest is history...
Being pregnant and working as a nurse during the pandemic sent my bull shit meter on high alert.
I was questioning everything. Even myself.
Pregnancy and birth truly was the catalyst for my own awakening and self discovery.
Motherhood has and continues to unravel me. It ripped me open and gave me clarity to see what matters in my life.
I can now see how I was living a life out of obligation instead of desire, trying to impress or meet the needs of everyone, except the most important person… myself.
This BS meter hasn’t stopped alarming since.
I’ve proudly been on this never ending journey of unlearning, relearning and embodying.
It’d be cliche and quite frankly, a BIG FAT LIE to tell you “I’ve walked this path and now I’m here to show you the way” because my path is different then your path.
Here’s the truth…
I have no proven strategy or framework to sell you.
But I can guide you back home to yourself and hold and support you while you draw up your unique blueprint to create a life of impact, abundance and freedom.
So, if you’re ready to
unapologetically make sense of your identity
finally find yourself in motherhood
awaken beyond the conditioning that’s keeping you pretty perfect and pleasing
and build an online business with ease and flow without taking your mom hat off…
Then know that I’m your wing woman and I’m here to hold the flashlight and your virtual hand while you pave your way
Cozy up, steep a tea and listen to the whole story of how our paths cross…
Some
random + useful
facts about me
I’m a 6/2 Self Projected Projector in Human Design
If you’re not familiar with HD, this explains my shameless super power of seeing things from a bird's eye view and naturally finding more efficient ways of doing things because of my need for more rest than the average person. Projectors are unapologetically lazy! This means I’m really really good at helping you “get more” by doing less. All of my clients joke that I should make merch that says “let it be easy” because I say it 9934743 times a day.
The ‘self projected’ part is my authority. This is how I make aligned decisions and tap into my intuition. It explains my love for podcasting and why it’s so therapeutic. I gain clarity and wisdom by hearing myself speak out loud.
My podcast REWILD + FREE (link) is both a playground for my own self-expression and a source of inspiration, education, and normalization for you. Listen here, to REWILD + remember as we break FREE from survival and reconnect to what really matters.
I’m an “old soul”, and “wise beyond my years”
Unfortunately, I grew up faster than I should have in my childhood, but this has led me to tap into my curiosity and creativity and incorporate play into my adult life. Seeking pleasure is a core pillar of my work. I’m a big believer that abundance follows joy.
So if you’re not having fun, what’s the point?
I don’t really believe in fancy certifications thanks to my sound BS detector
This is extra funny since my very expensive nursing degree is just collecting dust. I know to my core that experience and embodiment mean more than any silly piece of paper. I consider myself a lifelong learner, especially to my own inner world. Check out some of the most impactful trainings, books, and mentors that have influenced and inspired my work thus far (always expanding of course).
I’m a Seasons of Matrescence® Explorer, Educator & Guide
Which is just a really fancy way of saying I give a shit about motherhood, mothering and being/becoming a Mother, biologically and archetypically.
Nicole, with her husband, daughter, and 2 border collies live in Calgary, Canada.
As a family, we acknowledge that we live, breathe, and play on the traditional territories of the Blackfoot Confederacy (Siksika, Kainai, Piikani), the Tsuut'ina, the Iyarhe Nakoda Nations, the Métis Nation (Region 3), and all people who make their homes in the Treaty 7 region of Southern Alberta.